a little vent

i get so annoyed when people ask when im going to have kids. i know they dont all know the story, but why does it even have to be brought up, its nobodys business. i always find myself having to explain the issue, and thats fine, but then sometimes i get looked at like i am crazy. people dont understand that its just not that easy. this happens a lot in this military lifestyle john and i live in...many couples we know have kids, most younger and most with multiple children, thats fine. we wanted to wait to have kids because we do not see the rush to pop them out right away. ive been told that i, at twenty four, am getting old and need to have kids because everyone else does. what in the world does that mean? i am in no way old. i never even knew i had pcos until i was twenty three and we wanted to enjoy our life, without kids. i am called selfish for this too. im not sure why, but i think its responsible. we want to do things, we want to be able to provide properly, and we want to really know eachother and have our time together before we have kids...i think its smart. we do have pcos hindering our ability to have children now, but we have gotten to do some of the things we wanted to. so in the mean time, we will continue to enjoy ourselves and be selfish. ......just a little rant. and sorry for the errors in this post, my phone is not allowing me to use any caps, numbers, or other punctuaction. ps. i am not bashing anyone for having children and what not. i dont want anyone to think that.